This site uses cookies. By continuing, your consent is assumed. Learn more

97.9fm shares

How to sexually satisfy a woman orally

opinion

Oral sex is often a topic of much interest because so many women enjoy it greatly, and so many men are curious as to how to use oral sex to please their female partner. Although there is quite a bit of variation from woman to woman as to what they like and what their preferences are, there are some guidelines that a person can follow to maximize the oral sex experience for their partner.

This does not necessarily translate to another woman, so even if you have had a previous partner that likes oral sex a certain way, it is worthwhile to find out what your current partner likes.

Next, when performing oral sex, you should try your best to be relaxed.

MORE IN Relationships

Any hesitation or anxiety may be interpreted negatively by your partner and can be a source of distraction or turn off. If a woman thinks that you are not into it, she is not going to be into it. The best is when you can let yourself go and really eat her out. Attitude and enthusiasm are important.

For that reason, it is always best to start giving a woman oral sex slowly and softly. She may be very sensitive, especially at the start, and going too hard or too fast can be overwhelming.

Some women cannot tolerate direct contact with their clitoris and need to have the area pretty wet for it to be comfortable. Some will prefer that you incorporate licking over the U-Spot as well. By going slow you have a chance to explore the area and find out just what she likes and where. A good example to follow is thinking about how you would lick an ice-cream cone.

7 Easy Steps to Giving...

You can start off with a wide, soft tongue and take it from there. This is also less tiring, so you can go on for a longer period of time. If she wants you lick harder or have a pointier tongue, she will let you know. Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels.

If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: Once you have found the right spot, women need repeated stimulation in the same area in order to reach orgasm.

Remember that orgasm alone should not be the only focus of oral sex. Heightened arousal, lubrication, and pleasurable sensations are all important whether or not she reaches orgasm. Because good oral sex means spending a little time downstairs, make sure to find yourself a comfortable position that you can maintain for at least ten minutes.

If the position she prefers is too hard on your neck, try lifting her hips How to sexually satisfy a woman orally by placing a pillow underneath them, or by having her on her side and resting your head on the inside of her thigh.

Let's sum up the lessons...

Also, you do not have to tolerate being suffocated or having your head squeezed by her legs, so use your hands on the inside of her thighs to remind her if needed.

May you eat heartily and regularly! Naturally, use fingertips and lips. If whole, moist smooches around the neck may get the juices in the vagina going — what do you think kissing her down there can make?

At this point feel free to be a little harder.

News feed