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How to make your dating profile interesting

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Many of us in midlife are finding ourselves in a situation we never thought would happen to us This time, however, it's online rather than offline. When I divorced and was ready to meet someone again I believed I'd meet the 'old-fashioned' way, through a friend. Well, that clearly wasn't to be as dinner party dates became fewer and further between. Was a single, lively, midlife woman a bit of a liability?

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Was I seen as a threat by the women, who didn't want me 'flirting' with their men? Was I far too free and happy and unattached for the guys who feared me 'putting ideas' in their wives heads? So online dating it had to be! Online dating is not for the faint-hearted!

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However, it can be a lot of fun once you've established your rules of engagement! With so many people of our generation turning to online dating to meet a new partner how do you write a profile that will stand out from the crowd?

How do you create an irresistible dating profile? Those were the questions I had when I was online dating. So I decided to work with a friend to craft my very own irresistible dating profile These are my suggestions and what I now work through with clients:.

Create a Username that grabs attentiondon't be lazy and use your initials followed by a handful of numbers!

One of mine was Silver Pixie -- it's playful, cheeky and also lets people know I love my cropped silver hair Write a headline that acts as a hook It's easy to stand out from the crowd if you take some time and create a snapshot of your life, for example write about one moment from your life that represents a turning point of some sort.

It can be funny or serious. It'll be good if it showed a small victory, or growth in insight, wisdom or self-awareness.

The extras that make all the difference -- requirements for what you include in your dating profile vary from site to site so here are some extras that you can weave in to make your profile shine:. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news How to make your dating profile interesting straight to you.

Have the right positive attitude before spending your time on dating websites. Be businesslike about it. Have fun and enjoy the process.

Take your time, don't imagine you'll find your life partner after one connection. Be clear about what you're looking for before you sign up -- fling, friendship, long-term relationship.

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