It shows that you might not care what your significant other thinks of you. He was just never allowed off, Then the Milinial vacation to Bavaria came up, He was going to defy the order and have it hauled as high as possible even if it meant the supreme court he even had a liberal lawyer lined up to take his case. Do all of these things weaken the sanctity of your marriage? My longterm partner was married twice before and his second wife stopped having sex with him 5 years before they divorced. It depends on where they live. My ex-husband was a great man, good provider, we had a lot of things in common, same goals in life, you name it, but he never wanted sex.
I would recommend going back and reading the letter carefully. Both were excellent. Then with the children we were still sexual active yet not that frequent anymore. Also, ScottH , perhaps your judgment is right, and I cannot relate to the situation at hand. I remember hearing someone discuss sex starved marriages. Fair enough. Adelaide- I agree with you.